If you're like most people, you did better than chance. The differences between some of the smiles were obvious, but others were very subtle. You may be hard-pressed to tell exactly how they were different, even though you correctly identified the real smile. Somehow you can “feel” the difference. This is because detection and interpretation of a smile often works on a sub-conscious level. Additionally, did you find yourself smiling back at certain pictures? Scientists believe that this response evolved as a way for our ancestors to help cement important bonds and reduce tensions in times of stress. On the other hand, when we see a “bad” smile, it may actually intensify our feelings of unease. Because we detect a “masking” of true emotions or intent, our anxiety rises as we try to understand what's really being communicated or intended. Is the person lying? Does he intend to hurt us?
This smile factor holds many implications for us as photographers. What does it take to produce a portrait that invokes a smile in the viewer? How do we coax a real smile from our subjects?
In my experience, I've found that it helps to talk about the subject of smiles, how they're different, and what they communicate. Most are very receptive to the discussion. Whatever your method, find a way of engaging with your subject in order to make them feel comfortable and relaxed. Maybe it's through music, props of interest to the subject, or the choice in the photo shoot environment. Or it could be funny stories and jokes or involving them in the photo session that puts those smiles on their faces.
The Photo Session: Difference Between Boys & Girls
Generally, young men don’t see the value of portraits. It runs counter to who they are or think they are or who they're trying to be. Because of this, we must somehow find a way to bring out the young man beneath his mask. If you want real expressions from a young man, make sure his parents are not with him. Mom or Dad will keep encouraging Junior to smile--which only increases the tension and insures a lot of fake smiles. I also counsel a young male subject against bringing another young man with him. My experience is that his friend will make fun of his attempts to smile, and boys being boys, the name of the game will become how much can we humiliate the other guy. The subject will try to present a macho expression in a display that's important for the sense of self in adolescent boys. My best shots have happened when a girl friend accompanies the young man. Her presence produces a softening effect. He begins making a noticeable effort to be involved in the picture-taking process, because his girl friend is really getting into it.
Young women, on the other hand, look
upon a photo shoot as a time to show off. The sessions are often twice as long
as those with boys, because looking just right is so important. A successful
portrait session includes you taking the time to make them feel good about themselves and how they look. For
a young woman, a good girlfriend is often the best bet for her
helper--especially when they agree as far as photos are concerned.
No matter what technique you use to capture the real thing, a smile can make or break a portrait. A false
smile hides something of the subject's character and creates a feeling of
unease in the viewer. A real smile conveys a portion of the subject's
personality and instills a feeling of connectedness to him or her. Experiment
with different ideas to help your subjects relax and reveal their true selves. If you do, you'll enjoy more successful portraits and more satisfied
customers.
Answer to the real smiles: Figs. 1, 2,
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